Tuesday, July 28, 2009

Money & Happyness

Last week I bought some old video games from some guy. Not at a retail store or anything like that, but some guy who put some good deals up on Craigslist. I pulled up to his house, which was a pretty small, old looking place. Right when I got out, a woman walked out, carrying a baby. After shaking hands with the guy outside, he led me inside; Spongebob was on the TV, and two more toddler-age kids were playing around on the wooden floor. When I asked the man if he was unloading his collection, he said he was going to use the extra cash for some repairs on the house (I thought it best not to delve into employment). Guess you have to do what you have to do. Anyway, it seemed like kind of a tough setup; a wife, three young kids, a house that was probably too small to accomodate all five of them. It looked rough... but it made me realize how jaded my perception of success was. Yes, the house was pretty cramped, the yard needed a mow, and the guy was resorting to pawning off what was no doubt at one time a cherished hobby. But the man had a wife, and three lovely kids. He had a house, regardless of the size. Maybe he didn't currently have a job, but a lot of people don't have jobs right now.

Having lived a relatively comfortable middle-class life can shield you what some other people are going through. It's like traveling to a third-world country and seeing poverty all around you, thinking it's awful... then realizing that the people are still happy, oftentimes a lot happier than Americans can be. A relative one told me that in order to be successful/happy, I had to make a certain amount of money a year. The number he gave was around six figures. At the time, I thought, OK, that seems like it makes sense, and set my monetary sights high. But thinking deeper about it, not very many people-- certainly not a majority of the population-- make that much money. Of those people, however, I would like to think a good portion of them can consider themselves successful, happy people.



There was also an interesting article I read last week, talking about a guy who lives with no money at all. If you're thinking he's some hobo who lives in a cave, then you're right. But this isn't Castaway, or Hollywood at play; he's actually doing it. Scrounges around for his food, takes soapless baths in freshwater, all that good stuff. Sounds pretty disgusting, right? Maybe it's the romantic in me, but there's something admirable and appealing to such a simple, natural lifestyle. Within the context of society and modern luxuries, it's considered gross. But the man had a perfect quote, the kind scholars have framed in their den: "Money represents lack." This wasn't a man who grew up impoverished; he has a degree (in Anthropology, somewhat fittingly). What most of us would consider a life of homeless squalor, he considers free. I agree with him, but unfortunately, I am not as strong as him, nor do I share his heavy religious upbringing (I guess you could call him a true man of God). That being said, I see the benefits of society and how it is the end result of millions of years of change. If certain ways of life have occurred naturally overtime, then I don't see harm in going with the flow. At the same time, there's more harm in trying to reverse the flow, at least harm in society's terms. So props to that man and others like him who are managing to reverse the flow all by themselves.

Sunday, May 10, 2009

New city visit, new city move, old city visits

So Chicago was about two months ago now, and it was pretty amazing. Had that nice mix that I was hoping it would; that great metropolitan feel of an NYC yet also had a more spread out, sunny (maybe I just got lucky) midwestern feel to it. Definitely a place I would want to visit a with a friend in the future.

Also have experienced a change of scenery thanks to my first-ever job. Love Austin and always will, but it's kind of nice to get away, especially for that first real world jump... live in the same place for eighteen years and you're bound to develop some baggage no matter how great it is. Work in Flower Mound and live in Grapevine; both cities have appeared in "Best 'so and so' to live in" lists, which is a big plus since I'm a list kind of person. The cities feel like small towns, something which I've never really experienced before. Old school historic district with old timey buildings, great for a nostalgia phenom such as myself. They're also 40 minutes away from Dallas, a nice not-too-close-yet-not-too-far distance if I ever miss the big city lights.

But alas, you can never forget home. For as long I've lived in Austin, I feel like I barely know the city and would have trouble showing people around if asked to. When I come back from now on, I'll be sure to do my fair share of exploration.

Wednesday, March 11, 2009

Chi-town visit

Been a while since I wrote anything. Probably due to all the jobhunting I've done as of late. Anyway, tomorrow I am heading to the Windy City for five days. I've never been to Chicago, but it has always intrigued me as a huge city that isn't along either coast. Big cities like that have a certain appeal to me; Atlanta, Memphis, Phoenix, the Texas cities, etc. I'd think that such places combine both metropolitan and local characteristics. It's certainly something I've felt living in Austin for almost all of my life. So hopefully Chi-town will be a great experience. It's a great city for sports, food, and culture in general, so I doubt that my expectations won't be met.

Monday, January 26, 2009

Something different...

I am a huge NBA fan. So until I create a basketball blog, I'll probably make some NBA-related posts in here from time to time, just for grinsies.


The NBA just announced the all-star starters Thursday night, and fans made at least one very questionable pick. This is how I would've voted for the starters, as well as who I would choose as the reserves:

East Starters:
Forwards

Lebron James, Cavs - No discussion needed for this one.
Chris Bosh, Raptors - His team is struggling, but it's not his fault. The only East forward who's close to averaging 20 and 10.


Guards

Dwyane Wade, Heat - A resurgent year is single-handedly keeping his team in the playoff hunt.

Joe Johnson, Hawks - If there was any year Iverson shouldn't have been voted as a starter, it is this one. The Hawks have been surprisingly good. Joe Cool (as well as Mike Bibby) is not surprisingly a big reason why.

Center

Dwight Howard, Magic - Again, no discussion needed.


East Reserves:
Forwards
Kevin Garnett, Celtics - Although the team has tailed off a little since the amazing start, KG is the engine that makes the Celtics go. I'm one of his biggest critics but I've got to give him his props. Danny Granger, Pacers - Lighting up every single team this year. Except for the Spurs, that is :-)

Guards

Devin Harris, Nets - Making Dallas look stupid for trading him.

Jameer Nelson, Magic - The best season of his career has the Magic playing unbelievably well.


Center

David Lee, Knicks - A double double monster who plays well regardless if his team wins or loses. It's a crime that he wasn't even listed on the all-star ballot.

Wild Cards

Paul Pierce, Celtics - The Celts' leading scorer (or has Ray passed him up?) and killer in the clutch.
Vince Carter, Nets - He beat out Rashard Lewis, Antawn Jamison, and Caron Butler for my last spot, mainly b/c he provides a strong veteran presence on a very young team, has better overall numbers than Lewis, and b/c the Wizards suck. I used to complain about Vince voted in w/o even playing well; now I find myself endorsing him.



West Starters:

Forwards
Tim Duncan, Spurs - Kept the Spurs afloat while Parker and Ginobili were hurt while putting up the customary 20 and 10 that's his calling card. I love that year after year, in a league full of flash and explosive athleticism, fans still respect solid, fundamental basketball. Either that or a lot of wins. Tim finished over second place Amare with more than a million vote lead.
Dirk Nowitzki, Mavs - Like Bosh, he's putting up great numbers on a slightly underachieving team. Still the most unstoppable offensive big man in the game... unless it's the NBA Finals or against the Warriors, that is :-). Funny how I like Dallas more now that they're no longer a threat.


Guards
Kobe Bryant, Lakers - No discussion needed.

Chris Paul, Hornets - Ditto. Best point guard on the planet.


Center
Yao Ming, Rockets - Best center in the West and keeping his team alive amidst a slew of injuries.

West Reserves:

Forwards
Amare Stoudemire, Suns - Not having as great a season as in years past, but that's what happens when Shaq wants the ball.
Pau Gasol, Lakers - Gasol's never gotten much love from fans, but I've liked him ever since his rookie year w/ the Grizz. His effect on the Lakers' success is vastly underrated; last season, he received only five points towards an All-NBA spot. I highly doubt they would've made the finals without him.


Guards

Chauncey Billups, Nuggets - Between Melo and Chauncey, I think the latter's a little more deserving of an all-star nod. He's like Garnett in Boston; unspectacular stats but unquestionable leadership.
Brandon Roy, Blazers - Having a fantastic season helming one of the league's biggest surprises.


Center

Al Jefferson, Wolves - Minnesota's been playing great in 2009, largely in part to Big Al's spectacular play. I'd have loved to give this spot to Marcus Camby, but Jefferson's just too good to overlook.

Wild Cards
Tony Parker, Spurs - with Manu's struggles, the Spurs are more of a 2-man show w/ a bunch of solid reserves this year. Parker's one-half of the former tandem and is having a career year scoring and passing the ball. 55 points and 10 assists... not too shabby.
Paul Millsap, Jazz - I'd give this spot to Shaq, but there's no way that a team with a better record than Phoenix has no all-stars while Phoenix has two. Millsap beats out teammates Deron Williams and Mehmet Okur because of his out-of-nowhere dominance and consistency, though both Deron and Memo have convincing arguments as well. Millsap's like what Boris Diaw was to the 05-06 Suns when Amare was out; a diamond in the rough that's perfect for his team's system. Carlos who?


Notable Snubs:

No Pistons; ie, no AI (5th in the East but struggling)
No 76ers; ie, no AI (7th in the East and climbing)

No Shaq (playing his best bball in years at the expense of team chemistry)


First timers:

Danny Granger

Devin Harris
Al Jefferson
David Lee

Paul Millsap

On a side note, I hope cousin Rudy has a better showing in the dunk contest this year.

Friday, January 23, 2009

Applauding a Legend before greetings from a Foreman

Returning to my house from the Estelle and John Legend concert at around midnight, I entered my room and found myself facing the family's George Foreman Lean Mean Grilling Machine. I guess we didn't have room in the kitchen.

As for the concert, it was a blast. And an affordable blast, too; I got an early bird student discount and paid $23 at the most. Not bad for a five-time Grammy winner and an emerging British songstress. Legend ended the show (or his encore, rather) with a performance of "If You're Out There," a call-to-action song that I usually see on NBA Cares commercials during Spurs games. Typically, politics is a fine line to tread for entertainers. Maybe not so much for movie stars who are primarily gazed at from afar, but certainly for touring musicians. I remember reading about Linda Ronstadt's controversial Aladdin concert 4 1/2 years ago, where she let her politics be known. And just last year at ACL, I count myself among several fans who were at least somewhat alienated when an act brought up the upcoming election (the politics were a little awkward; making fun of John McCain's POW injuries was just plain inappropriate). Yet for Legend, the call-to-action felt alright. It was done with class and grace that several other entertainers lack. I always appreciate it when anyone begins a statement with "No matter what your personal position," as it immediately encompasses the entire political spectrum. I don't particularly lean one way or another, which often leaves me left out in the two party system. Yet Legend's humanitarian activism is one that transcends whoever our president is and whatever views the fans and Legend himself have. For that, I applaud him even more than I did during the concert.

Tuesday, January 6, 2009

Some Goals for the New Year

1a. Get rid of a recurring cough
1b. Get a job
1c. Develop my portfolio
2a. Get out of the house
2b. Clean the room
3. Become a better musician
4. Hit the weights
5. Freshen up on my Mandarin
6. Write a script
7. Make some movies
8. Rediscover reading for fun
9. Improve my handles
10. Try making sushi

I guess you could call it a resolution; I think of it more as a to-do list.

Thursday, January 1, 2009

What a year

2008 was pretty intense, quite possibly the most intense year of my life. I had incredibly great things happen to me, and I had incredibly crummy things happen as well, not to mention the "eh" events. A few snippets:

-Cousin moved in w/ family
-A nice, relaxing, 4.0 four course semester
-Twenty-first birthday
-Had a rude awakening
-First advertising internship :)
-Worked with film
-Worked with child actors
-Corny confessions
-Got sick on 6th Street
-Slept in my car (not napped but slept)
-Went to campus Sunday noon, left Monday evening
-Got aforesaid movie screened at a theater
-Met someone I didn't like (Tis a rare occurrence)
-Spent two months away from home for the first time
-Bought a camcorder
-Bought a MacBook Pro
-Screwed by a car rental company
-Went to a relative's wedding
-Terrible, stressful, six course semester
-Second advertising internship :)
-Watched Texas beat OU
-Cooked eggplant parmigiana
-Directed a commercial
-Received a cease and desist order for aforesaid commercial
-Jobhunted
-Started this blog!
-Graduated from College
-Pitched in front of a client
-Met the sort of woman I'd like to marry
-Played drums on Guitar Hero for the first time

So not necessarily an interesting year, but certainly eventful. Those "What have I been doing with my life" moments occur all too often, probably due to a combo of graduating and general worriment. Maybe a New Year's Resolution will help with that, though everyday should be a day of self-improvement. Oh well, it's as good an excuse as any to set some goals in stone.